So, life is relatively easy.
You are born, you love parents, family friends, and caregivers
Follow the basic moral rules of life, don’t lie, cheat, steal, or harm another person or animal.
Attend school, learn lessons from parents, elders, and teachers.
Achieving levels of education, to pay bills, to quench desires of want and need. (PS: learning doesn’t stop with certificates or degrees.)
Pair with someone your heart desires immensely, produce or adopt offspring and provide them the same process you enjoyed.
Everything else is superfluous, so what complicated?